It is all about "How You Respond To Happening"

Daily we get up to follow our day routine till retire of a day, barely we realize that we have successfully contributed one day of our life to the functionalities of the Cosmos.

Taking a big picture of our life, we ponder sometimes our multi-dimensional roles we are bound to play  daily, without realizing its consequences on others around us. What is Making us ?

What is Destroying us ?It is what that is bringing paradigm-shift in our thought process? Who is rebuilding our determination ? who are changing our inclination to change our decisions ? what ...? what...? and what ....? changes goes on and on and on.

Do we really think sometimes, as to why there is a difference in what we wish to see within us, around us and what really happens? 

Just introspect every situation happens to us, you will notice that we react to it. The reaction is based on our knowledge level at that moment of time. Even no reaction is also an action contributed. And the result we see is the product of that reaction. We may pretend (for some time) having confidence on what we did and how we did was the best. But later we realize that if we could have enough understanding of the response we expect out of it, then we definitely have given a  thought before any reaction. The outcome we expect can be very well achieved by converting it into the "Response to our action" .

It's wonderful to understand and apply , needs lots of pre-thinking, patience, and taking things in head first to visualize its repercussion from all angles. It comes with regular practice. But certainly, is the only way to taking things as per our choice. The situation may occur of any type but how do we respond to it and take benefit out of it , is a real wisdom to be learned upon by constant learning from our failures,  converting mistakes to experience.

Why and What of Life ?

Why we forget our path in life?Why value system keeps on changing in life ? why we get confuse in life, when encounter setbacks ? why every thing seems baseless , when you face setbacks ? why it becomes difficult to take decision sometimes ? why people what to see only from their perspective ? why we want to keep every one happy ? so many whys ........ list is on and on and on....

But the fact is life is simple, if we see carefully. Life in itself do not demand so much. it has basic to be fulfilled. our over expectations makes us distress. Our over evaluation and under evaluation of the things and relations makes us unhappy. our basic need is very easy reach and achievable. it is only when we compare our life with other , our expectation gets deviated from our needs.

As a human what are our basic necessitates ? Just ponder ! you will find , it is at two levels, one , at physical and second, at soul level. We need air,water,food,shelter,clothing. at physical level and we need love,care,respect,justice,protection at soul level. Now think, as a human, can't this be earned for one life ? The answer lies within ourselves. We have to just make our conduct very definite. To elaborate , we all know if we work we can earn all physical level needs. Also, if we practice soul level need in our life, if our conduct itself is showering love to all beings , if we are giving respect to others, if we are taking all possible care of others from our side, if we are practicing justice to other with our conduct, if we are protecting all those who are under our shelter than , we get in return all soul level satisfaction as well as repel effect of life.This sense of satisfaction always lead our path in right direction.

Essence to human existence

If we plan any journey without having destination in our mind, then , on the way, we tend to get confuse, landing us to no place, wandering here and their. We, definitely appreciate a journey, which comes with a guide map, and an inquiry of do's & don't during the journey. It is then, we  actually prepared and enjoy this process of transition. Every landmark encourage us and add to the curiosity of reaching to the destination. Similarly, for our lives if we do not decide a goal , we bound to get distracted  and bewildered during the process. Therefore, It is very important to have a good goal in our life. A clear goal, will makes your journey very clear too. Any biased decision, like following someone's else life or following somebody else's guideline in your life will not give you satisfaction, ultimately. Moreover you will never  know your hidden potential, which is very unique. If you can unleash your real potential as per inner quest of your soul,  sky is the limit for you. It is then , only you can enjoy doing what you are doing ,actually. This give you lot of satisfaction and make you think creatively in life, at this juncture of life your realize that you are living not mere spending days of your life. One way of finding your interest is , to involve yourself in almost every activity, what life is offering you. The theme which has a power to hold you, will be that inner quest to be searched upon .That need to be explored in your life and worth living for.

Live a life as it comes

To know the meaning of life. we have to live the life, to its fullest, not simply spending life. Its a unique story worth written. Respecting being absolute sole, we must write this book carefully. If one has to sense the beauty of life,   then, we must allow life to blossom, adhering to our inner quest , the kind of life we want to live and follow.  Not necessarily, it has to go through all good experiences, rather some bitter once will make it more interesting and enterprising. All bad and good experiences will make whole picture of life a marvelous epic, worth watching. All dents,scars, shine, colors on this epic will be a landmarks of achievements, a recognize award, that we survived. It will  be a inspiration  to many others.Therefore, live your life as it comes, without compromising on living accept every thing what it has to offer, which can not be changed. and alter those which can be changed. Become and architect, analyzing every thing and making life every moment. A real architect never compromise on the quality of its craft , on the cost of comfort or any other factor. He/She just concentrate on selecting and imbibing those, which makes epic the best.It requires lots of discretionary vision. A visionary, who realistically finds the limitation and potentials of its craft, It requires lots of sacrifices, dedication, sincerity to carve a niche of that epitome. A classic !